To each his own. Different strokes for different folks. It takes all kinds for the world to go ’round. Well, that’s about it for all the excuses I can think of at the moment. I was happily rolling along scanning the news items and one caught my attention, of course. It seems that Germany’s BMW heir, along with several other very wealthy women, had gotten herself involved with a gigolo. Okay, the heiress, reportedly worth 13.2 billion dollars and the 55th richest person in the world is paying for it. I get that. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, there’s a lot to be said for a contractual agreement for sex.

Funny thing is, this dude tried to blackmail her and with some apparent success. The married heiress did give him several million dollars before she turned matters over to the police. Good for her–at least she finally did tell him where to get off. He is presently serving six years in prison. However, he never gave up the pics of all the women he was blackmailing them with or tell authorities where the almost 13 million was located that the BMW heiress had already paid him. I suggest torture–start by stretching out that gigilo penis of his on the rack! What’s the world coming to when you can’t even trust your friendly neighborhood stud.

Which brings me to another point. This dude looks like a wimp to me. Of course he would be. Blackmailer of women? Regardless of the circumstances, he’s a coward–wimp. User of women to the nth degree. But take a look at the dude. If you’ve got all that money, wouldn’t you at least buy a man who looked good? This dude is just your average Joe. Hard to think about him having any sexual prowess. I mean, I’d want a little more bang for my buck. Pun intended. lol

So here’s the link. Tell me what you think of this guy. My grandmother always said you could fall in love with a rich man as easily as a poor one. Translated into 21st century terms to go with this new occasion, I think she’d now say:

“If you’re gonna get screwed, make sure he at least looks good.” Enough said.

Pretty boy or dud?

http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/europe/03/09/germany.bmw.heiress.blackmail/index.html

Dr. Phil reports that OctuMom is concerned the hospital won’t release her eight babies from the until she has a decent place to live and a means to take care of them.

Next on the list…a porn company has offered her a million bucks to star in one of their flix. And further offers to cover her entire family with health benefits if she signs on do do multiples.

Hmmm…does this sound like the perfect set up for a reason to take the money and run? I can see the headlines now. “I had to do the porn route because the hospital refused to release my babies.”

Oh well, time for this train wreck to end somehow.

Chicago Sun-Times columnist, Bill Zwecker, seems to have the scoop on OctuMom. The now infamous Mom has indeed had plastic surgery. I’d been waiting on pics to surface. I’ve been so busy lately I hadn’t really been keeping up with the unguided missile story, lol, but heard about the heated argument between she and OctuGrandma and today discovered bits and pieces scattered across internet blogs regarding OctuMom’s suspected plastic surgery.

According to Zwecker, friends, neighbors, associates, etc. say she has indeed had plastic surgery. Those same people also speak to her obsession with Angelina Jolie. An unidentified source close to Jolie has even stated that OctuMom has tried on numerous occasions to contact Jolie. Before or after surgery or the latest batch of kids, I have no idea.

So what is this all about? I have an opinion, of course. Could it be that Suleman developed a fixation when she noted what she may have believed to be similarities between her and the superstar? After all, both had six children. Maybe this is a case of the understudy trying desperately to outshine the star. Case in point, having another group of children. Becoming a star in her own right.

At first I wasn’t sure about the plastic surgery claims, no photos. Then I discovered a site complete with photos. And there it was, just as plain as the nose on your face…errr…OctuMom’s face. There is no doubt in my mind that OctuMom did indeed have plastic surgery, or that said surgery was purposely intended to make her look like Jolie. Angelina should be creeped out and it’s reported that she is.Here is the site (The Insider) that posted the “before and after” photos of Suleman. Tell me whether you agree this gal has had major work done and if that work isn’t an obvious attempt to look like Jolie.

http://www.theinsider.com/news/1658099_Nadya_Suleman_Before_and_After_Plastic_Surgery

I’m not an Angelina fan–not a celeb fan at all–but this is one time in which I feel for a celebrity. Suleman is a very very sick person and needs help. I can’t figure out why someone isn’t giving it to her, or why the authorites don’t step in and take these children before something incredibly awful occurs.

And here is the big question. WHO THE HELL PAID FOR THE PLASTIC SURGERY?

I haven’t seen the interview that was recently aired between Suleman and her mother. I’m told they were pissy with each other. Has anyone here seen it? If you’ve got a link, I’d love for you to post it.

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I’m completing my third post in my series on sex and older women and men. Cougars are what I’m basically discussing today. Just remember, Sensual ‘n’ Secret is not a blog for the faint of heart. Our bloggers tend to be frank and very forthcoming with their ideas about human sexuality.

If you aren’t scared off by now, drop in and take a look at some of our posts. Check out the archives. Beginning in March we are adding on some bloggers that will send you into overload. We hope. lol

Today’s post link is:

http://sensualnsecret.blogspot.com/2009/02/quest-part-3-older-women.html

The story that just won’t go away. Famed attorney, Gloria Allred, is now in the mix. On behalf of a group known as Angels in Waiting, Allred has made an offer to OctuMom to provide ’round the clock care for all of the babies who will most assuredly need it when they come home from the hospital. That care would take the monkey off the backs of taxpayers. Supposedly, OctuMom was made the offer a week ago, but has not responded. It’s assumed that Allred held the impromptu press conference in order to pressure OctuMom into accepting. Makes sense to me.

And I’m sure you’re aware that OctuGrandma’s home is in foreclosure status. Ten months behind on payments. I can certainly understand that. Food comes before anything else. But still, you’ve got to have a roof over the heads of those babies.

And this is the SHOCKER!!!!

OctuMom was spotted checking out a 1.24 million dollar home. Does this mean she has made some sort of deal with someone? Hmmm…just as I suspected, this was all a play for money. On the one hand we could say she was just smarter than the average bear. But sorry, using children for fame and fortune is just plain damn disgusting.

Somebody is gonna get sued in all of this. Maybe the fertility doc is putting up the change. Or maybe the plastic surgeon who gave her Angelina Lips. tee hee

What say you?

Did anyone get a load of those two idiots robbing a store or whatever it was with thongs over their faces to obscure their identity? Wonder what kind of message they were trying to send with that?

The term “pussy faced” comes to mind, although I don’t know why. If they did it for notoriety, I guess they met the mark. Otherwise, they would have been just your average, ordinary kind of idiots instead of newsworthy idiots.

I do have one burning question I’d like to ask though. Were the thongs clean, or straight from their lady love’s asses? You know, sort of like a scarf or ribbon that knights of long ago received before they went into battle or tournament–a good luck token?

Is it just me who feels this way, or are people just getting weirder?

I’m over at the Sensual ‘n’ Secret Blog today. I’m starting a series on older men and younger women and older women and younger men. I’d love to find out your take on it. So stop by and give it a read.
Here’s the link: http://sensualnsecret.blogspot.com/2009/02/tesss-quest-for-knowledge.html

Yeah right, like we don’t know our kids will lie to us. It happens somewhere around puberty. Before that, they’re all sweetness and light, well, sort of.

I have a twelve year old, a sixteen year old, and a seventeen year old soon to be eighteen. I’m not worrying about the sixteen year old. She went to live with her biological mother for fourteen months and she is completely screwed up now. Came home to me to lick her wounds and get her life straight again. Not sure how she is going to do all of that though. Although the first thing is to get her GED. Yep, Mother of the Year, not only signed for her to quit school, but encouraged it. Mom of the Year also signed for her to get married to a twenty one year old. How the hell do you straighten that out?

The twelve year old is pretty kewl. I can handle him right now. lol

But I’m getting off topic here.

The seventeen year old is lying left and right. I keep telling her that there is nothing she is doing that I haven’t done. There is no sex act that I am not aware of, no drug I don’t know about, no stupid teenage game I haven’t played.

She thinks of me as old fashioned. I pulled up one of my books and said, “Read this.” She read about two sentences, jumped up and ran and locked herself in her bedroom. Good. I was pissed off to the max. I stay that way lately. What’s wrong with the world?

I’ll show her old fashioned.

I’ve always been open with the kids about everything. There is no subject I’ve ever considered taboo. Why is it I can’t be trusted? I’m just plain sick of it. If you tell me you need x amt of dollars to do something or you are going to spend the night with a friend and then it turns out you bought something totally different with the money or you did not spend the night with that friend, then I’ve caught you in a lie. When I’m lied to I think I have the right to get upset. Just tell me the truth.

She’s on the pill. So no worry over pregnancy. I bought her condoms to protect her from STD’s. Lectured her on the fact that you should get to know a guy for at least a few dates before you spread your legs, so what is the problem? What am I leaving out here? And why is she doing the crap anyway and lying to me?

Hmmm, guess it could be that I’m paying for her cell phone, can cut it and the comp off at any time and can take her car from her. Maybe I should just do all of that right now and she can stay home until she stops lying.

Is anyone else having these problems? Advice please, cause the rewards system no longer works. And she’s too big to spank.

I’m not blogging here today. I’m over at the Nice ‘n’ Naughty Blog. Monday is my usual posting day there. Stop by and check out why I want to be slapped and just who I’d like to slap. Leave me a comment, I’d love to hear from you. Here’s the link.

http://nicennaughtyauthors.blogspot.com/2009/02/somebody-slap-me-please.html