Today’s topic is CYBERSEX!!! Yes, Cybersex, but first a few thoughts about last week’s blog on FIRST SEXUAL EXPERIENCE. Most noticeably my MY SPACE (check out my My Space) blog had quite a few hits. Thanks for that! As a writer I love for you to read my work. LOL. Didn’t have quite so many public posts, however the private messages were abundant to say the least. Regardless, there were repeating themes. Only two out of over forty women (messages and comments) were able to use the word pleasurable to describe their first time. The thirty some men who messaged me…(only one posted publicly…Kudos to you Hot Lover and it sounded like fun)…almost always there was an older woman involved. Hot Lover had every boy’s wet dream in that he was 12 and she 18 and a sorority gal! As for the older woman younger man (boy in a great many cases) scenario…I’ve often teased that I would like to find one younger and train him like I wanted him. So maybe there’s something to that after all. They did seem to enjoy it ohhhh soooo much! Which brings me to my next point. All the men described it as a wonderful experience. DUH!
I also discovered a touch of romanticism in some of my male friends. My friend Bruce especially. He’s got a thing about chocolate! Sex and chocolate. Can it get any better than that? My friend AnneMarie obviously talked the guy’s head off (she would) and Ava Rose was left bruised and sore (but did it feel good at the time, girlie? LOL). Kande girl got rug burns (you and Ava Rose can commiserate on your battle wounds). Megan reported nothing unusual, but did like the idea they were both virgins. R Nilles and I share in the search for the perfect frog and Desiree commented on size…hmmmm, does size matter? Interesting subject for a survey. Maybe next week. LOL. And The Countess and I both gave it up for the same reason…we simply didn’t want to be virgins anymore. So much for the Survey. Now on to the latest!
CYBERSEX CYBERSEX CYBERSEX….DO YOU CYBER? DO I CYBER? hmmm…shall I tell? Let’s take it slow. LOL….What is Cybersex? A virtual sexual encounter in which two or more persons connected remotely via a computer network send one another sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. It is a form of role-playing in which the participants pretend they are having actual sexual relations. Yeah, got it…straight from the book. In the realm of cybersex you can be anyone you want to be. The shy gal can be hot and sassy. The short average man can be tall and muscular. I have a few questions for you on the subject. Now don’t be shy about answering. Post to the blog, if you can, about an online sexual experience or just your thoughts on the subject. If not send me a private message. But I would love to see your thoughts on the subject of cybersex posted. Consider these questions as you post:
1. Do you? and if not would you? and under what circumstances could you be compelled
to do so?
2. Can words alone turn you on? (forget the webcam for now! LOL)
3. If you engage in cybering, are you cheating on a real life lover?
4. Can cybersex ever be real and honest?
5. Tell me a happy tale of Online Romance. (You can leave out the cybering if you like)

…..and remember…Sex is a beautifully choreographed dance…the moves only limited by your imagination and willingness to share the dance floor. Let me hear from you!

Wishing you Hot Sultry Southern Nights!
Tess
Erotic Fiction That Sizzles!

I posted a survey (of sorts.lol) on my MySpace page. Go check it out. The survey is all about your first sexual experience. Only four questions to answer. The funny thing is….I can blog about anything under the sun–my writing, my friends, my dog, a controversial political subject–anything….but, mention the word sex and you get hits! Let’s face it, nothing sells like sex! When I posted about the blog survey I gave it an NC-17 Sexual Content Rating because I’d like for my friends to post exactly what they’d like to say. So, far not too bad. lol……a little racey, but nothing major. I love my My Space page. Love to play with the layout and check out all the Friend pages. Oh, by the way, just put on a new layout. Go check that out too. Getting ready to work on a book trailer for The Emerald Lady. Release date is September 19. So stop back by and take a look at what I come up with? Did I say I? I mean my sixteen year old. I couldn’t figure out how to do a book trailer if my life depended on it. I’ll just select the pics, the copy, and the music. Let her deal with all the techno stuff!

Wishing you Hot Sultry Southern Nights!

Tess

Well it’s going on ten months now that I started writing. It was something I always wanted to do. My children are old enough that I thought it was time to follow one of my dreams. So now I have just submitted my fourth work. A category targeted for an epub. Just had my first sale last month to another epub. At first it was allllll so relaxing to just sit down and let the words flow, but now there are all these deadlines and all these things to learn. I needed a website….Got to have a webby. And now you need friends on the webby. How do you get those? You blog, you post, you email, you network. The things a writer must do in order to be successful is an endless mountain of work–pure and simple. Don’t mind all the work though. It will alllll be worth it in the end. What I do mind is the stress I feel over it. Got to find a way to DE STRESS! And I guess we all know the best way to de stress don’t we? Wonder if The Midnight Rider would like to stop by?

Wishing you hot, sultry Southern Nights!

Tess

We had a little mishap in the middle of the night. A family member needed stitches. God what a mess! I’d only been in bed an hour. So I’ve had very little sleep and don’t know if I will make any sense. lol Had to work on my self edits for those 40,000 words I had lost that my crit partner sent back to me as my original rough drafts. Oh, how I mourn my polished prose. So late last night I had to sit down and get the opening to my Seventy Days of Sweat novel in the works. Almost 900 words. Sent them to my critique partner, Ava Rose Johnson shortly after midnight. (My life seems to revolve around the bewitching hour.) My concern is it might be a little too hot for the line I am targeting. May have to turn down the heat. Well, not to worry, Ava will tell me– that’s for sure! Ever had an argument with a critique partner via IM. Our little trio calls them CAT FIGHTS!! Alas, one third of our trio is off to conference this week and we will miss her. However, she does have her lap top and emails will fly through cyberspace I am sure. She left an IM message for me this morning before she left. She’d overslept. Just like her. Well, off to work. I have too much to do today. Oh, and don’t forget! The Midnight Rider has promised to stop in toward the end of the week. There’s no telling what he’ll have to say.

Wishing you hot, sultry southern nights!

Tess

What have I gotten myself into? Diva Author Alison Kent along with others (more about them later), has issued a challenge to write a novel in seventy days. SEVENTY DAYS OF SWEAT! As all of you authors know, it’s no easy task to write. And the way my life is, things always happen when you least expect them to. LOL…For instance, yesterday I accidentally deleted 40,000 words of a novel I planned to submit today! But I am blessed with a terrific critique partner who is a pack rat. She saves everything I write! AnneMarie Roberts is my hero! So as a result of the accidental deletion, I am now behind and now committed to begin a new project that entails I start today and write every day. When will I sleep? LOL…..All I can say is that my family probably needs to start looking for outside activities. And a couple of them better learn to do the laundry! GOOD LUCK TO ALL PARTICIPATING IN THE SEVENTY DAYS OF SWEAT!

CLICK ON SVEN FOR ALL THE DETAILS!

Wishing ya’ll hot and sultry Southern Nights!

Tess

I’ve spent the last two days polishing my latest. You can read about it on my Works In Progress page. It’s the one with the working title, Pirates. Anyway, it’s been a tough one for me…My muse disappeared for a while. Actually it was my sex muse, LOL. Anyway, she’s back and I’m filling in the blank spaces I left for all those steamy scenes. I’ll be sending off the query and first three chapters later today. Wish me luck. My best buds tell me I don’t need it. Keep them crossed girls! No matter how painful it may be.

Wishing you hot sultry nights.

Tess

Just wanted to stop in and wish everyone a happy July 4th. It feels so good to know that across this country everyone is celebrating this special day. Makes you feel like you are a part of one big happy family. I stopped writing long enough to spend a little time with my family. We fired up the grill and had beef shis kebobs with chunks of onion and zuchinni, mushrooms and carrots. Added a fresh green salad and had watermelon for desert. Afterwards we all went down to the lake in the center of town to watch the fireworks display. It’s so awesome to watch the reflection of the fireworks on the waters surface–like a black mirror with color exploding inside it. I’ve never missed a July 4th at the lake, no matter where I lived at the time. Don’t plan on ever missing one. It’s a memory I’ll always keep close. Just like the ones I’m making with my children now. There’s nothing like the excitement of a child when they watch those colors bursting in the sky. Hope all of you made a memory today. Happy writing and reading to all.

Wishing you all…..Sultry Southern Nights.

Tess

First kiss doesn’t meant that much, just a way to go further. I’m not into happily ever after. There’s no woman I need that badly. Don’t get me wrong, it feels great. All of them do. And I work for that first kiss. Compliment her hair, her clothes, her perfume. Tell her how beautiful she is tonight. I listen to her, draw her in. That’s what it takes. My first touch is careful, even calculated. I know she wants it soft. Wants it to mean something. And it does mean somethng. I make it mean something. There’s nothing sexier than a woman’s eyes when she knows I am about to kiss her for the very first time. Full of anticipation. Hope. I move slowly, don’t want to scare her. It means something to me too. Doesn’t it? My eyes never leave hers until our lips touch. I feel her tense, then soften as she melts into my mouth. There’s always a sound…a soft sigh, a little moan. I know what she’s feeling…and it makes me hard. And after the dance? I move on to the very next first kiss……And Ladies…MY VOICE REALLY IS LIKE CHOCOLATE.

If you’re reading this, then you heard my call…a siren’s call that is. I’m a Southern Belle who loves to tease, loves to write…but more than anything, I love the heat. So sit back, kick your shoes off and stay awhile. I’ve got a book coming out soon, The Emerald Lady, to be published by Twilight Fantasies. Visit their website: www.twilightfantasies.com Lots of nice peeps there. Now about my blog. Honest conversation, that’s what you’ll get. No fluff. Just gonna give it to you straight. And I’m gonna have a little help. Got a man who calls himself The Midnight Rider. Yeah, you heard it right. A great big ol’ Alpha Male who’s gonna give it to us straight–the male POV. Now isn’t that novel? He’ll be here once, twice a week. You know how men are. Never can nail them down…Check him out. Next post. He’s here with me right now. You’re gonna love him…Or love to hate him.