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My friend Jade Twilight has a wonderful blog you should visit.

That lady has some really fantastic advice on making all the right moves.

Below is a little sample of her work.

http://naughtythoughtsanddirtywords.blogspot.com 

 

Fantastic Fellatio- The Art of Giving a Blow Job

First thing you need is a good attitude. If you go at it like “let’s get it over with” then nobodies gonna have a good time. If you’re not willing to give 110% then stop reading… This ain’t gonna help.
Ok you’re still reading…
Let’s get the ball rolling by saying the penis in not indestructible. So be gentle. It’s actually super sensitive, especially when aroused.
With that in mind try using all your assets to help with your BJ. Lips, tongue, hands, and if you’re a woman breasts. Some guys like to have you rub it again your chest, or even cum on your breasts. Make your hand an extension of your mouth. If you have a hard time deepthroating you can mimic the sensation by placing your hand around the base of his shaft and moving it up and down in time with your mouth.
Now don’t try to take the whole penis in your mouth all at once, if you have a sensitive gag reflex it could get nasty. Take it a little at a time; go at your own speed. Some guys might want to go faster, but make sure your partner know you’re in control. Switch things up; remember to use your hands, tongue. Try licking the under side of the shaft. And don’t forget the balls. Suck and massage them too.

Now that we know the basics, let’s go into something a bit more advanced.
Deepthroating…
Now contrary to popular belief this is not just continuously holding a cock down your throat. Deepthroating is lovingly taking your partners penis and swallowing it down your throat. How long you keep it there is up to you.
In order to accomplish this feat you have to over come your natural gag reflex. If your gag reflex is very sensitive you might want to practice on a toy or possible a banana (Don’t Laugh!) Bananas are curved, rather than straight, long and about the same width as many penises.
Although if you’d prefer something more lifelike try one of these.
Soft touch penis - Realistic dildos
Jelly royales dong junior - Realistic dildos
Ballsy super cock royal - Realistic dildos
When you’re ready get comfortable, in a position like you are giving a regular blow job. If you normally kneel, then kneel. If you lie down, then lie down. You get the drift. Get the toy/penis slick with either saliva or flavored lube. Then give it your full attention. Just like with a regular blow job take it slow. Take a little at a time: down and out, a little more down then back out. Slowly increasing the depth of the toy. Keep working until you get passed your tonsils.
Remember to BREATH! This might seem hard or impossible at first. But you just have to learn how to breathe through your nose. In time and with practice, you’ll be able to pattern your breathing with the rhythm of insertion.
Wanna spice it up give your man a “Hummer”
While you have your partners penis deep in you throat start humming, doesn’t matter what you hum. Just hum! It’ll drive him wild.
Ok so you’ve mastered the Blow Job/ Deepthroating… do you spit or swallow?
Personally I swallow, I mean it’s not unhealthy or fattening and no matter what anyone says it isn’t going to get you preggers if swallowed. Granted it can be a bit bitter. If taste is a factor try getting your partner to change his diet. Eating fruit & veggies can make a man’s semen taste sweeter. But over all this is a personal preference.
A few quick tips…
~ Use your hands- God gave them to you for a reason.
~ Don’t forget the balls- They need attention too.
~ Remember to breath.
~ If you’re worried about gagging try…
* A numbing agent on the back of your throat (although if you don’t use a condom it will get on his member)
* Have him lie on his back this gives you more control.
* Try flavored lube- The slicker the easier to go down.

I hope you found this educational, I sure did.